Thursday, November 19, 2009

Introduction

Good communication is the foundation of successful relationships, both personally and professionally. But we communicate with much more than words. In fact, research shows that the majority of our communication is non verbal. Nonverbal communication, or body language, includes our facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, posture, and even the tone of our voice. The ability to understand and use nonverbal communication is a powerful tools that will help you connect with others, express what you really mean, navigate challenging situations, and build better relationships at home and work. Communication is the effective use of all our point across to another person. It is impossible to “Not” Communicate by our very silence we are telegraphing our ranger, pleasure, some meaning. However, we can miss communicate by deliberately or unintentionally lying, not paying attention, or remaining unaware of our real wants and needs.

Many people think that the most popular way of communication with other people is through the mouth. But what they didn’t know is that actual verbal communication accounts to only around 10% (or even less) of the overall means to convey a message. Moreover, you can never determine the truthfulness or sincerity of people by what they say alone. In fact, words transmitted verbally oftentimes do not reflect what people really think or feel. The only way you can determine their true inner feelings and thoughts is by reading their body language.

Definition Nonverbal Communication

Nonverbal communication, or body language, is a vital form of communication. When we interact with others, we continuously give and receive countless wordless signals. All of our nonverbal behaviors the gestures we make, the way we sit, how fast or how loud we talk, how close we stand, how much eye contact we make send strong messages.
The way you listen, look, move, and react tell the other person whether or not you care and how well you’re listening. The nonverbal signals you send either produce a sense of interest, trust, and desire for connection or they generate disinterest, distrust, and confusion.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Communication in Negotiation

Hai friends,

sorry for not giving any respond towards our blog conversation. Actually, myself was called to attend this course 'Basic Hostage Nogotiation' at Police Acedamic for three weeks. this course thought us how to communicate with Terrorist and Hostage Takers. In communication we must know with whom we are talking to and using language to good effect.
Some more info that I can share is in negotiation, we must build rapport to gain trust and establish influences with the terrorist Or Hostage Taker to help problem solving. the best day is during exercise, our team have to do negotiation, where some of my colleague take off from doing it because of the conversation must be in english. can you all imagine how is the scene during negotiation with terrorist from Philippine taht time, for sure you will laugh at me if uou hear the story later. okey see you than friends.. Bye..

communication

do dicipline play role in communication?

Saturday, October 10, 2009

UNDERSTANDING BODY LANGUAGE FOR COMMUNICATION


Hai friends,

My name is Halijah Hussain.
Age: 46 yrs
Status : Married
Occupation: Police Officer in IT Division
Bukit Aman.

This blog is for us to participate in Engllish discussion. The topic that I would like to discuss and need you comment/idea is about Understanding Body Language For Communication. As per dicussion in the class, each of us have their own task. So, if you may send your article (not too long please) and let others in the group to give a good respond regarding the topic.

Thank you.
Halijah Hussain